Four Warning Signs

The first secret to taking the right steps: avoid getting off on the wrong foot. We all go down this path now and then. It becomes easier to avoid the path to disappointment and setback, once you can read the signs.

The four warning signs that point to pending setback and disappointment (in a relationship, in business, in everyday life):

1. You easily get upset; means your pride is hurt. When you get emotional quickly and easily, you give your power to those you get upset with. You are clouded with emetion. You cannot see out what to do. Other’s cannot see in. You isolate yourself.
2. Less power leads to low self esteem. You don’t feel good about yourself. This leads to fear.
3. Fear of further upset and isolation: in extreme cases you despair and turn to others and do their bidding – in order to maintain some form of connection. This is not love or friendship. It is….
4. Mind control: someone else has you under their thumb. This is not love. It’s manipulation. You have no way out, until you find the courage to get out from under.